Focusing on the negative things is a curse. It makes you fixated on not only negative things but also wastes a lot of energy. That makes it harder to focus on what really matters, creating… Read More »Why do We Focus on Negative Things and What to Do
“I hate myself,” said I. That was a normal part of my daily and consistent acts of self-degradation. And I am sure I am not the only one who does that, aren’t I? Some people… Read More »I Hate Myself In These 7 Painful Ways. And It Is Hell
There are signs of a healthy relationship that often go unnoticed. People usually focus on the grandiose, and often cliché, ways of expressing their undying love. Or they chase the chemical cocktails that give you… Read More »2 Signs of a Healthy Relationship That Can Last (Research-based)
How to deal with anxiety is not the type of question that occurs to your mind when the shit is breaking loose. You know! When your heart is beating fast. When your chest is heavy.… Read More »How to Deal with Anxiety: The Secure Guide
The day I realized that I lack self-awareness was the day I read about self- awareness. The day I realized that my social skills suck was when I was put in situations where I was… Read More »Self-awareness: How to Know ‘What’ to Change
Mean people are a pain in the neck. No, wait! The pain they cause can go further than your neck and screw up your self-esteem and how you feel about yourself. Let’s face it, we… Read More »Mean People 101: What Jerks Don’t Want You to Know
This is a guest post by Timon, the social skills coach at Techlecticism.com . You may check is bio below the article. “How embarrassing a story do you tell when you meet someone new?” I… Read More »How to Connect with People By (Surprise!) Being Vulnerable
Should you love your flaws and accept them?
Or should you work hard on changing them?
First of all, what I mean by the word flaws is the following:
“What you don’t like about yourself. Your shortcomings and insecurities and issues. Whether it’s about your personality, your living conditions, or even your physical looks.”
Those flaws can be real or imaginary.
In either case, they will threaten your self-esteem unless you deal with them in a healthy way. So many people want to become better but they are paralyzed by the fact that there will always be flaws.Read More »How Do You Feel About Your Flaws and Insecurities?
Whenever someone asks the question, “how to change your life?”, they get a list of tips and tools to apply.
That’s not always helpful.
Let’s do something different in this article to answer this question in a better, and a simpler, way.
Let’s pretend for a while that self-improvement is like magic.
And to use this ‘magic’, we need a wand.
A wand that you can wave and watch the magic happen before your eyes. A wand that changes everything, from your self-confidence to the actual results you yearn to see in your life.Read More »How to Change Your Life Using a Wand