There’s a certain quality that will destroy whatever self-esteem that you have.
I’ve had it myself. I still have it in some areas. I’ve seen other people having their lives destroyed because of it (seriously, no exaggeration).
The more you have it, the less self-esteem you’ll have. The more you have it, the more your life will suffer.
Contrary to the common belief, a healthy self-image isn’t that shiny or glamorous.
It’s something good. But it doesn’t always feel good. And it doesn’t always come across as something good.
In many cases, you have to go through a lot of pain in order to reach that highly sought-after healthy self-image and high self-esteem.
And you will not always have it. You will still have insecurities and flaws and shortcomings.