It is a scary idea. Ugly, even.
And by “it”, I mean the painful, dreadful idea that you are probably not good enough. And I believe that your imagination is, ironically, good enough at finding other adjectives than “good” to fill in. Adjectives like, “smart, tall, pretty, rich …etc.”
But I bet you have thought of it before, pondered on it, and almost believed it one night when you were feeling very vulnerable and weak. Read More