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This Happens When You Give Yourself the Permission to Screw Up

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 I’m a perfectionist. And, no, that’s not a good thing.

I used to think that being a perfectionist is linked to being a genius and doing an excellent work.

But it’s not.

It’s linked to fear, shame, and seeking approval.

I would do anything to avoid being seen as imperfect. Not because I want to do an excellent job; because I’m afraid people wouldn’t like the imperfect version of me.

Hard confession. I wish I can omit that last paragraph. But no, I want to suck and I want to do something imperfectly.
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How Do You Feel About Your Flaws (And Why It Matters)

How do you feel about your flaws?
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(Caution: reading this article might be painful. Some of the stuff written below can make some people upset. After all, who wants to read about their flaws and shortcomings? Only those who want to handle them in a healthy way. So, don’t read on unless you are truly committed to growing and improving).

Should you love your flaws or accept them?

Or should you work hard on changing them?

Well, it’s not easy to say. Every case is different.

However, what really matters is the way you feel about having those flaws. This will either destroy your self-esteem or build it.

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